Homesteading is a dream for many—living closer to nature, growing your own food, raising animals, and embracing self-sufficiency. It’s a lifestyle filled with rewards, but it’s also packed with challenges and surprises that most beginners don’t anticipate. Looking back on my journey, there are several things I wish I had known before diving into homesteading. If you’re just starting out, these lessons might save you time, money, and frustration.

1. You Don’t Have to Do Everything at Once
When I first started homesteading, I was eager to try it all—gardening, raising chickens, keeping bees, and preserving food—all at once. I figured if instead of just dipping a toe in, I would jump in both feet first. This was a recipe for burnout. I quickly learned that starting small and focusing on one or two projects at a time is the best approach. Homesteading is a marathon, not a sprint. There’s always time to add more as you gain experience and confidence. If you want to read about how I got started I’ll link it below.
2. It’s Harder Than It Looks Online
Scrolling through social media, it’s easy to romanticize homesteading. Beautiful gardens, happy animals, and rustic homes make it seem effortless. In reality, homesteading is a lot of hard work. Plants don’t always thrive, animals get sick, and fences break, a lot. Be prepared for challenges and bad days. Homesteading is about learning as you go, and remembering its okay to make mistakes.
3. The Cost Can Add Up Quickly
I assumed that homesteading would save me money right away, but I quickly realized that the upfront costs can be significant. Tools, seeds, fencing, animal feed, and infrastructure like coops and raised garden beds all require investment. While homesteading can save money in the long term, it’s important to budget wisely and prioritize essential projects first. I also suggest prioritizing DIY projects and recycled materials before buying new. It’s more important for it to be purposeful than pretty.
4. Research Is Your Best Friend
One of the biggest lessons I learned is that knowledge is power. I made several mistakes early on because I didn’t research enough. For example, I didn’t now how to amend my soil or know what companion planting was. Let’s not start about how I misjudged the height of fencing I needed for my goat enclosure. Take the time to study your land, climate, and the requirements of the animals or plants you want to raise.
5. Time Management Is Key
Homesteading is incredibly time-consuming. Between caring for animals, maintaining a garden, and tackling DIY projects, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. I wish I had created a daily and seasonal schedule earlier to stay on top of tasks. Planning ahead, especially for busy times like planting and harvesting seasons, makes everything more manageable.
6. Pests and Predators Are Relentless
One of the biggest shocks for me was how relentless pests and predators can be. From insects destroying crops to foxes breaking into the chicken coop, I learned that prevention is crucial. Invest in secure fencing, use natural pest control methods, and always be prepared to adapt your strategies.
7. It’s Okay to Outsource Some Things
As much as I wanted to do everything myself. I quickly realized that it’s okay to ask for help or outsource certain tasks. Whether it’s hiring someone to repair a fence or buying seedlings instead of starting from seed. Outsourcing can save you time and energy when you’re feeling overwhelmed. When I outsource I prefer to buy local or from other homesteaders to help support my community.
8. Patience Is Essential
Homesteading is a lifestyle that requires patience. Gardens don’t grow overnight, and animals take time to mature and produce. There will be setbacks and slow progress, but trust the process. Celebrate small victories and remember why you started.
9. Self-Care Matters
In the early days of homesteading, I often worked from dawn to dusk, neglecting my own well-being. Over time, I learned that self-care is just as important as caring for your land and animals. Take breaks, rest when you need to, and make time for hobbies or relaxation to avoid burnout.
10. Homesteading Is a Journey, Not a Destination
Finally, I wish I had embraced the mindset that homesteading is an ever-evolving journey. There’s always something new to learn, and your goals change over time. Instead of striving for perfection, focus on progress and enjoy the process of building a lifestyle that works for you.
Final Thoughts
Homesteading is a fulfilling and transformative lifestyle, but it’s not without its challenges. By learning from my experiences, you can avoid some common pitfalls and set yourself up for success. Remember to start small, do your research, and give yourself grace as you learn and grow.
Whether you’re just starting out or thinking about taking the plunge, homesteading is a journey worth pursuing. What lessons have you learned or are you excited to explore? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

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