As a full-time working mom of three, it can feel like there’s never enough time in the day to get everything done. Between work, kids’ schedules, house chores, and the usual chaos of family life, the idea of gardening can sometimes feel like an impossible dream. But here’s the truth: if you want your garden to thrive, starting early and taking it one step at a time is the way to go.
For me, gardening is more than growing my ownfood and being self-sufficient—it’s a way to create something beautiful and peaceful in the middle of my busy, sometimes overwhelming life. But with everything else going on, I’ve had to learn to approach it in a way that fits into my lifestyle. I don’t always have the luxury of spending hours outside every weekend, but I can make steady progress in small, manageable chunks. And you know what? It works.
Why I Start So Early
Some might say I start too early, but for me, every weekend counts when it comes to preparing my garden for the season. Instead of cramming everything into a couple of weekends in the spring, I break it down and chip away at tasks bit by bit. This gives me the freedom to work on what needs to be done when I have time, without feeling overwhelmed.
Starting early also helps avoid that feeling of panic when you realize it’s already planting time and you haven’t even prepped the soil. By starting in early, I can get a head start on things like cleaning up the garden beds, pulling weeds, and organizing my tools. This way, when it’s finally time to plant, I can focus solely on that—without distractions.
Small Steps for Big Results
It’s all about taking small steps and making them work for my lifestyle. Some weekends, I’ll focus on one task—maybe I’ll plant a few flowers, clean up an area, or lay down mulch. Other weekends, I might just spend an hour trimming or pruning. But with each little task, I’m moving closer to my goal.
What works for me is that I never try to do everything at once. I’ve learned the hard way that pushing too hard leads to burnout. But by spreading it out, I feel a sense of accomplishment each time I complete something, even if it’s just one small part of the bigger picture.
The Struggle of Doing It on My Own
I won’t lie—sometimes it’s a struggle. As a busy mom, I often find myself doing things on my own. It’s tough to find the time and energy to work on the garden with everything else going on. But this is where the power of routine and small victories comes in. I set aside time in the mornings or evenings, It doesn’t matter if it’s just 15 minutes here or there; those small moments add up.
And on the weekends, when my husband can help out or the kids are home(and willing) enough to pitch in, it feels like a win. They might not always be into gardening, but teaching them how to plant or water the garden is a great way to get them involved and make it a family activity. Plus, it helps me feel less overwhelmed when I have a little extra support.
Embracing the Journey, Not Just the Result
I’ve learned that the process of gardening, like everything else in life, is about balance. The final product is important, but the journey of getting there is just as rewarding. By taking it one step at a time and starting early, I can make steady progress without feeling like I’m falling behind.
I’ve found that gardening, especially when you have a busy lifestyle, is about being patient with yourself. There will be weekends where things don’t go according to plan. There will be days when you’re too tired or have too many other things on your plate. But as long as you keep showing up, even in small ways, your garden will thank you.
So, if you’re juggling a busy schedule like I am, don’t stress about having a perfect garden or finishing it all at once. Start early, work in small bursts, and most importantly—make it work for you. By taking it one step at a time, you’ll find that the garden you’ve dreamed of can come to life, even in the midst of your busy life.
What’s your favorite garden task to tackle early in the season? I’d love to hear how you make gardening fit into your lifestyle!














