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  • Why Building Homestead Systems Feels So Hard (And What to Do Instead)

    Why Building Homestead Systems Feels So Hard (And What to Do Instead)

    If you’ve ever felt like you finally had your homestead running smoothly…

    the animals were getting fed on time
    the garden was mostly under control
    the house felt manageable
    you had a routine that seemed to be working

    …and then life happened and suddenly everything started falling apart again…

    You are not alone.

    One of the most frustrating parts of homesteading is feeling like you’re constantly trying to “get it together,” only to have your routines collapse the second life gets busy, stressful, or overwhelming.

    And when that keeps happening, it’s really easy to start asking yourself:

    Why can’t I keep up?
    Why do my systems keep failing?
    Why does this feel so hard?

    But honestly?

    Most people don’t struggle with homestead systems because they’re lazy.

    They don’t struggle because they’re incapable.

    And they don’t struggle because they’re just “bad” at routines.

    A lot of times, building homestead systems feels hard because the systems themselves were never designed for real life in the first place.

    A Lot of Homestead Systems Are Built Around “Best Case Scenario” Life

    I think one of the biggest reasons people struggle to build systems that actually last is because they accidentally build them around their best day.

    The day where:

    you have energy
    you’re motivated
    the weather is perfect
    nobody is sick
    nothing unexpected comes up
    your house is calm
    work isn’t overwhelming
    and you somehow have extra time

    So you sit down and make a plan.

    You decide you’re finally going to get organized.

    You’re going to meal prep, track the garden, keep animal records, stay on top of chores, preserve food, work out, drink more water, keep the house cleaner, and create a better routine all at once.

    You write it all out.

    You decide exactly when you’re going to start seeds.
    Exactly when you’re going to weed.
    Exactly how your mornings will look.
    Exactly how your evenings will run.
    Exactly what days you’ll preserve food.
    Exactly how long every task should take.

    And on paper? It looks amazing……For about a week.

    Then real life shows up.

    Work gets busy.
    A kid needs something.
    The weather changes.
    You get tired.
    You have a bad day.
    The garden needs more than you expected.
    The chickens dump their water.
    The freezer needs organized.
    Dinner takes longer than planned.

    And suddenly the system that looked so good on paper starts falling apart.

    Not because it was a bad idea.

    But because it was built around ideal conditions instead of your actual life.

    Real Life Is the Test Every Homestead System Has to Pass

    This is something I think more people need to hear:

    A system that only works when everything is going right is not a very strong system.

    Because real life is not made up of perfect days.

    Real life includes:

    busy work weeks
    bad weather
    sick kids
    low energy
    burnout
    unexpected expenses
    mental overload
    seasonal chaos
    times when you’re simply trying to make it through the day

    If a system can only function when you’re well-rested, motivated, perfectly organized, and operating at your absolute best… it’s probably going to fall apart the second life gets hard.

    That doesn’t mean you failed.

    It means the system wasn’t built with enough flexibility.

    The goal isn’t to build systems that only work on your best days.

    The goal is to build systems that still work on your average days.

    Or even your hard days.

    Because the version of you that’s tired, overwhelmed, busy, stressed, or stretched thin still deserves systems that support her too.

    Trying to Improve Everything at Once Usually Backfires

    Another reason building homestead systems feels so hard is because so many of us try to fix every area of life at the same time.

    We decide we’re going to finally “get our life together” and suddenly we’re trying to build:

    a meal planning system
    a freezer inventory system
    a garden tracking system
    an animal chore system
    a budgeting system
    a cleaning routine
    a better morning routine
    a food preservation routine
    a workout routine

    all at once.

    And for a little while, motivation makes that feel exciting.

    Motivation says:

    Let’s do all of it.
    Let’s start over.
    Let’s make everything better.
    Let’s become a completely different person by next week.

    But motivation and sustainability are not the same thing.

    Motivation is exciting.
    Sustainability is realistic.

    Motivation wants to change everything overnight.
    Sustainability asks, “Can I realistically keep doing this six months from now?”

    That’s a very different question.

    Because most people don’t burn out because they’re incapable of building systems.

    They burn out because they’re trying to build ten systems before they’ve even proven one works.

    Comparison Makes Building Systems Even Harder

    Comparison is another huge reason homestead systems feel harder than they need to.

    Maybe you follow someone online who:

    homeschools multiple kids
    bakes bread from scratch
    milks goats every morning
    preserves everything
    grows a giant garden
    raises livestock
    keeps a spotless kitchen
    and somehow seems to do it all effortlessly

    And without even realizing it, you start thinking:

    “Well if they can do it, I should be able to do it too.”

    But maybe your life looks completely different.

    Maybe you work full time.
    Maybe your kids are in sports.
    Maybe you have a long commute.
    Maybe your energy is lower right now.
    Maybe you’re in a season where you’re already stretched thin.
    Maybe your budget is different.
    Maybe your climate creates totally different challenges.

    But instead of building systems around your reality, you start trying to force someone else’s routine into your life.

    And that’s where a lot of systems start breaking down.

    The problem usually isn’t homemade meals.
    Or gardening.
    Or preserving food.
    Or raising animals.

    The problem is trying to force a system into your life that was never built for it.

    A Good Homestead System Should Work With Your Life, Not Against It

    I think one of the biggest mindset shifts in homesteading is realizing that good systems should support your life — not constantly fight against it.

    That means asking questions like:

    What do I realistically have time for right now?
    What tasks stress me out the most?
    What routines feel sustainable with my current schedule?
    What am I trying to do simply because I think I “should”?
    What keeps falling apart?
    What feels harder than it needs to be?

    Because if you’re constantly building routines that leave you exhausted, behind, and frustrated, the answer is probably not “try harder.”

    The answer may be:

    simplify the system
    build smaller
    slow down
    focus on one area at a time
    remove unnecessary steps
    adjust your expectations
    or stop trying to force your life into someone else’s version of homesteading

    Build for Your Bare Minimum, Not Your Best Day

    If there’s one thing I would encourage more homesteaders to do, it’s this:

    Build systems around your bare minimum.

    Build for the version of you that is:

    tired
    busy
    overwhelmed
    low on motivation
    mentally drained
    physically worn out
    dealing with a stressful week

    Because if your system still works during those seasons, it will probably work during almost anything.

    That doesn’t mean you can’t do more when you have the time or energy.

    Of course you can.

    But your baseline system — the one you rely on long term — should not require constant peak performance to survive.

    It should be simple enough, realistic enough, and flexible enough to still function when life gets messy.

    And honestly?

    That’s what makes a system sustainable.

    Not perfection.

    Not intensity.

    Not motivation.

    Consistency.

    Even imperfect consistency.

    What to Do Instead

    If building homestead systems has been feeling harder than it should, I’d encourage you to stop trying to fix everything at once and start here:

    1. Pick one area that’s causing the most stress

    Not ten things.
    Not your whole life.
    Just one.

    Maybe it’s feeding routines.
    Maybe it’s watering the garden.
    Maybe it’s meal planning.
    Maybe it’s freezer organization.
    Maybe it’s keeping up with animal chores.

    Start with the thing that creates the most friction in your day-to-day life.

    2. Ask what makes it hard

    Is it too time-consuming?
    Too complicated?
    Too inconsistent?
    In the wrong location?
    Dependent on motivation?
    Built around unrealistic expectations?

    3. Make it simpler

    A lot of times the best system is not the fanciest one.

    It’s the one you can actually repeat.

    That might mean:

    • fewer steps
    • a smaller version
    • a different schedule
    • moving supplies closer
    • automating part of it
    • lowering the bar temporarily
    • focusing on consistency over optimization

    4. Test it without making it personal

    If it doesn’t work right away, that does not automatically mean you failed.

    It may just mean the system needs adjusted.

    That’s normal.

    Every homestead is different.
    Every family is different.
    Every season of life is different.

    You’re allowed to experiment.

    You’re allowed to pivot.

    You’re allowed to change things until they fit.

    Final Thoughts

    If building homestead systems feels hard, it doesn’t automatically mean you’re doing something wrong.

    A lot of times it simply means you’re trying to build routines that don’t actually match the life you’re living right now.

    And that’s fixable.

    You do not need to build a perfect homestead routine overnight.

    You do not need to copy someone else’s schedule.

    You do not need to overhaul every area of your life at once.

    You just need to start paying attention to what your real life actually needs.

    Build smaller.
    Build slower.
    Build around your real schedule, your real energy, and your real season of life.

    Because the best homestead systems usually aren’t the most impressive ones.

    They’re the ones that still work when life gets messy.

    If this post resonated with you, I also go deeper into this topic in my latest YouTube workshop on building homestead systems that actually fit real life. I’ll link that video below if you want to watch the full breakdown.

  • I Thought I’d Make $5,000 Selling Garden Starts…

    I Thought I’d Make $5,000 Selling Garden Starts…

    There are some lessons you only learn by doing.

    This is one of those stories.

    Earlier this year, I decided I was going to host my very first plant sale.

    Now…..to be clear, I’ve never had a plant sale before. Every year I start way more seedlings than I need and I usually end up giving the extras away to friends, family, coworkers, and neighbors.

    But this year I had a much bigger idea.

    Somewhere along the way, I convinced myself I was going to make $5,000 selling garden starts.

    Yes…

    Now that I say it out loud, it sounds a little ridiculous.

    But hear me out.

    At the time, it made perfect sense.

    Why I Thought It Would Work

    I’ve been working hard to pay off debt, including my she shed, and I’ve been looking for ways to earn extra income.

    Then it hit me.

    I already grow hundreds of plants every spring.

    I already own a greenhouse.

    I already have grow lights.

    I already know how to start seeds.

    How hard could it really be?

    I wasn’t just planning to sell individual plants either.

    The real money maker, at least in my head, was going to be garden kits.

    • Beginner garden kits
    • Salsa garden kits
    • Ultimate garden kits

    People could simply choose a box, I’d fill it, and they’d leave with an entire garden.

    It sounded like a win for everyone.

    I carefully planned different seed-starting dates, chose varieties that weren’t common in my area, estimated losses from poor germination, and planted extra just in case.

    I truly believed I had thought of everything.

    Then the Plants Took Over My Life

    Apparently…

    I’m pretty good at starting seeds.

    So good, in fact, that I ended up with well over a thousand healthy plants.

    At first everything fit neatly inside my greenhouse.

    Then the greenhouse filled.

    So I reorganized.

    Then I started up-potting everything.

    Soon my barn became overflow storage.

    Every shelf.

    Every table.

    The floor.

    Every inch of space was covered in plants.

    I wasn’t upset about it, though.

    Honestly, I felt proud.

    I had grown an incredible amount of healthy plants, and I couldn’t wait to sell them.

    I Started Building Excitement

    I began posting on Facebook, sharing photos of my plants and talking about my upcoming sale.

    I wasn’t necessarily trying to sell people immediately.

    I just wanted to plant the idea.

    Maybe when it came time to buy tomatoes or peppers, they’d remember me.

    Some people even reached out ahead of time saying they planned to come.

    Everything seemed to be going according to plan.

    Then Reality Showed Up

    First…

    My tomatoes.

    I had started my first batch way too early.

    Then our weather became completely unpredictable.

    Warm one week.

    Freezing the next.

    Several major windstorms rolled through while I was at work.

    One storm literally snapped dozens of plants in half.

    Just like that…

    I lost around 50 tomato plants.

    I reminded myself that was exactly why I’d planted extras.

    Everything would still be okay.

    Or so I thought.

    The Overwhelm Started

    As the weeks went on, more plants needed larger pots.

    Larger pots meant fewer plants fit in each tray.

    Fewer trays fit on my shelves.

    Every day became a juggling act.

    Morning.

    Lunch break.

    After work.

    Watering.

    Moving trays.

    Checking temperatures.

    Hardening plants off.

    Bringing them back inside.

    Doing it all over again.

    At the same time, I kept advertising the sale.

    And almost nobody was engaging with my posts.

    Then I made the mistake so many of us make.

    I started comparing myself.

    I saw other people selling plants.

    Some charged less.

    Some charged more.

    Some had established businesses.

    Some I’d never even heard of.

    And suddenly I started questioning everything.

    Was I charging too much?

    Did people even know who I was?

    Was the idea bad?

    Was I wasting months of my life?

    I Had to Make a Change

    After months of caring for over a thousand plants, I realized something.

    I needed my space back.

    I started taking boxes of peppers to work.

    I donated a bunch to our local food bank.

    Not because I had given up…

    But because I needed to make it manageable again.

    Funny enough, even after donating so many plants, I still had enough to make all of my garden kits.

    Plant Sale Weekend

    Then the weekend finally arrived.

    I put signs out.

    I advertised online.

    I waited.

    And….No one came.

    The second day…

    Two people showed up.

    Two.

    I remember looking around at hundreds and hundreds of plants.

    Months of work.

    Months of planning.

    Months of watering.

    Transplanting.

    Moving trays.

    Buying supplies.

    Watching temperatures.

    Hardening plants off.

    Advertising.

    And two people came!

    I was embarrassed.

    I felt defeated.

    I felt stupid.

    I started asking myself every question imaginable.

    Maybe I didn’t advertise enough.

    Maybe my prices were wrong.

    Maybe people didn’t want what I was selling.

    Maybe nobody knew I existed.

    The hardest part wasn’t caring for the plants.

    It wasn’t the watering.

    Or transplanting.

    Or hauling trays in and out every day.

    The hardest part was believing I’d failed.

    Because this wasn’t just a weekend project.

    This represented months of work.

    Months of imagining a completely different outcome.

    When reality looked nothing like the picture I’d built in my head…

    I took it personally, I started questioning everything around me.

    “Would it be a waste of time?”

    “Is it even going to work?”

    I had completely lost my confidence.

    The Final Decision

    I held another sale the following weekend.

    A few more people came.

    Some bought replacement plants after losing theirs to the weather.

    Some loved the garden kits.

    But I still had hundreds of plants left.

    At that point my own garden was completely planted.

    I didn’t want to spend another month taking care of plants meant for everyone else.

    I wanted my freedom back.

    So I made a decision.

    I gave the rest away for free.

    And here’s the funny part…

    Within hours, they were gone.

    Dozens of people came to my house.

    Families were excited.

    People were genuinely grateful.

    The vision I’d imagined actually happened.

    It just didn’t happen the way I expected.

    So… How Much Did I Actually Make?

    Remember my goal?

    Five thousand dollars.

    My actual total?

    $537.

    At least I got the five right.

    Was It a Failure?

    Honestly…

    I don’t think so anymore.

    Would I do another giant plant sale?

    Right now?

    Probably not.

    I work full-time, I have a homestead, animals, my own garden, kids, dinner plans….Responsibilities.

    Trying to manage over a thousand plants on top of all of that simply wasn’t sustainable.

    Maybe someday, when life looks different, I’ll try again.

    But next time I won’t attach some giant number goal to it.

    I’ll do it because I genuinely enjoy growing plants.

    What This Experience Taught Me

    Looking back, I actually learned a lot.

    Just because I’m good at growing plants doesn’t mean I need to grow a thousand of them.

    Timing matters.

    Marketing matters.

    Convenience matters.

    The economy matters.

    Having an established customer base matters.

    But maybe the biggest lesson was this:

    I helped dozens of families grow food this year.

    Some picked up plants from the food bank.

    Others came to my house.

    Whether they paid for them or not, those gardens still exist because I grew those plants.

    That’s something I’m proud of.

    Sometimes the Lesson Is Worth More Than the Outcome

    If you’ve followed me for a while, you’ve probably heard me talk about building systems that fit your life.

    Starting small.

    Avoiding overwhelm.

    Not comparing yourself to other people.

    Funny enough…

    I did the exact opposite with this project.

    I got ahead of myself.

    I took on too much.

    I planned the outcome before I gave real life a chance to weigh in.

    And maybe that’s the biggest lesson of all.

    No matter where you are in your journey, you’re still going to be humbled sometimes.

    You’re still going to have ideas that don’t work out the way you imagined.

    You’re still going to have seasons where your plans completely fall apart.

    No amount of experience or education will protect you from that.

    But that doesn’t mean you stop trying.

    It doesn’t mean the idea was stupid.

    And it definitely doesn’t mean the effort was wasted.

    Sometimes you simply have to do the thing, learn the lesson, and do it a little better the next time.

    So if you’re sitting on an idea that’s intimidating you…

    Or you’re beating yourself up because something didn’t work…

    Give yourself a little grace.

    Even people with experience get it wrong sometimes.

    And that’s okay.

    Because every failure leaves you with something valuable if you’re willing to learn from it.

  • Budgeting Isn’t About Money—It’s About Habits

    Budgeting Isn’t About Money—It’s About Habits

    If you’ve ever tried budgeting and it didn’t stick…

    You’re not alone.

    Most people think budgeting is about:

    • Tracking every dollar
    • Cutting spending
    • Using spreadsheets
    • Or just having more discipline

    But here’s the truth:

    Budgeting isn’t about money—it’s about habits.

    And if your habits don’t support your budget…
    no app, printable, or system will work for you long-term.

    Why Budgeting Fails for Most People

    Let’s talk about why budgeting feels so frustrating.

    You start out motivated.

    You tell yourself:

    “This time will be different, I’m going to stick with it.”

    You track everything for a week… maybe two.

    Then life happens.

    • You get busy
    • You forget
    • unexpected expenses pop up
    • You fall behind or forget a payment

    And suddenly it feels easier to just… stop.

    Not because you’re bad with money.

    But because you were relying on willpower alone instead of systems.

    Budgeting for Beginners: What It Actually Means

    Budgeting gets overcomplicated.

    So let’s simplify it.

    Budgeting is the habit of paying attention to your money.

    That’s it.

    It’s:

    • Knowing what’s coming in
    • Knowing what’s going out
    • Checking in regularly
    • Making small adjustments

    Not perfectly.

    Not all at once.

    Just consistently.

    Budgeting With Irregular Income (Real Life, Not Perfect Life)

    If you’re a homesteader, side hustler, or working with variable income…

    You already know:

    Your finances don’t look the same every month.

    One month might include:

    • Feed costs
    • Garden supplies
    • Vet bills

    The next might look completely different.

    That’s why strict, rigid budgets don’t work here.

    👉 You need a flexible system that adjusts with your life.

    The Real Problem: Habits, Not Numbers

    Most budgeting advice focuses on numbers.

    But the real issue?

    👉 Daily habits.

    Things like:

    • Avoiding your bank account
    • Impulse spending when you’re stressed
    • Not planning for irregular expenses
    • Saying “I’ll figure it out later”

    Those habits shape your financial reality far more than any budget ever will.

    How to Break Bad Money Habits (Without Overwhelm)

    You don’t fix this by changing everything overnight.

    You start with awareness.

    Ask yourself:

    • When do I overspend?
    • What triggers it?
    • What patterns do I see?

    Because you can’t change what you don’t notice.

    How to Build Better Money Habits That Actually Stick

    This is where real change happens.

    Not in a perfect plan…

    But in small, repeatable actions.

    Start with:

    • Checking your spending once a week
    • Writing down upcoming expenses
    • Pausing before purchases

    That’s it.

    👉 Small habits done consistently will outperform any “perfect” budget.

    Systems vs Willpower (Why You Keep Starting Over)

    If budgeting has never stuck for you…

    This is probably why:

    👉 You’ve been relying on willpower.

    And willpower runs out.

    Especially when:

    • You’re tired
    • You’re busy
    • Life gets overwhelming

    What works instead?

    👉 Systems.

    Simple, repeatable systems like:

    • A weekly money check-in
    • A place to track spending
    • Planning for upcoming expenses

    Systems keep you consistent—even when motivation is gone.

    Watch This: Breaking Down Budgeting Habits (Video)

    If you want to hear this explained step-by-step and see how it works in real life…

    Watch my full video here 👇

    In the video, I walk through:

    • Why budgeting fails
    • How habits actually form
    • How to break bad money habits
    • And how to build systems that stick

    Tools That Actually Help (Without Overcomplicating It)

    You don’t need something fancy.

    You need something you’ll actually use.

    1. Homestead Budget Binder (Simple, Flexible System)

    If you want a place to organize everything without overwhelm…

    My Homestead Budget Binder was designed for real life:

    • Irregular income
    • Seasonal expenses
    • Feed, garden, and household costs
    • Busy schedules

    It helps you build clarity and consistency, not perfection.

    👉 Grab the binder here: Printable Homestead Budget Binder

    2. The Grounded Homesteader: Book 1 (Budgeting)

    If you want to go deeper into the mindset and habits behind budgeting…

    My book The Grounded Homesteader: Budgeting breaks it down in a simple, real-life way.

    This isn’t about strict rules.

    👉 It’s about building a system that actually works for your life.

    👉 Get the book here: Homesteading On A Budget

    Simple Budgeting Tips You Can Start Today

    If you’re overwhelmed, start here:

    • Check your spending once this week
    • Write down your next big expense
    • Choose ONE habit to focus on

    That’s it.

    Not everything.

    Just one.

    Final Thought: Budgeting That Actually Works

    Budgeting isn’t about restriction.

    It’s not about being perfect.

    👉 It’s about building habits that support your life.

    Because once your habits change…

    Everything else starts to follow.

  • Homesteading Is Like an Umbrella

    Homesteading Is Like an Umbrella

    There’s this idea floating around online that homesteading has to look a certain way. Perfect gardens. Acres of perfect green pasture. Perfect chicken coops with matching feed bins and cute little signs hanging over the nesting boxes. Social media has a way of making it feel like every homestead should look like it belongs in a magazine or on Pinterest, and honestly, if that’s what someone wants to build, that’s completely fine. There’s nothing wrong with wanting beautiful raised beds, coordinated décor, or chickens gracefully wandering around a perfectly maintained yard. Some people genuinely enjoy creating that kind of space, and if that’s their dream, they should absolutely go for it.

    But the truth is, homesteading is not — and never will be — one size fits all.

    I’ve started explaining homesteading like an umbrella. At the center of that umbrella is the idea of living a little closer to the land, your food, your family, and yourself. Then branching out from that center are all the spokes. Gardening can be one spoke. Raising chickens can be another. Baking bread, canning food, composting, preserving harvests, learning herbal remedies, sewing, cooking from scratch, hunting, fishing, budgeting, DIY projects, raising livestock, collecting rainwater, or even just growing herbs in a windowsill planter can all be spokes on that umbrella.

    And the best part? You get to choose which spokes belong on your umbrella.

    That’s what makes homesteading so customizable. You don’t have to do every single thing. You don’t have to know how to milk a cow, butcher a chicken, sew your own clothes, bake sourdough, and grow a year’s worth of food just to call yourself a homesteader. Maybe you love gardening but chickens completely freak you out because tiny dinosaurs with attitude are not your thing. Cool — then don’t get chickens. Maybe you love cooking from scratch but have zero interest in sewing your own sweaters or hemming pants. Honestly, same here. If I tried sewing anything important, there’s a good chance I’d somehow make it worse instead of fixing it. Maybe your version of homesteading is learning how to preserve food. Maybe it’s raising rabbits. Maybe it’s growing tomatoes in containers on an apartment patio. Maybe it’s learning to rely a little less on convenience culture and a little more on yourself.

    It all counts.

    Somewhere along the way, I think people started believing that if your homestead doesn’t look polished enough, organized enough, or productive enough, then you’re somehow “doing it wrong.” I absolutely hate the phrase “real homesteader” because who exactly gets to decide that? I’ve had old-timers tell me, “That’s not homesteading. Homesteading means working the land.” And historically, sure, that’s where the term came from. But language evolves. Lifestyles evolve. People evolve. Today, homesteading means a lot of different things to a lot of different people.

    To me, if someone is trying to live more intentionally, learn useful skills, become more self-sufficient, connect more deeply with their food, or simply slow down and appreciate the process of creating instead of constantly consuming, then they belong in this community too.

    And honestly? Most homesteads in real life do not look like the polished pictures online.

    Most homesteads have junk piles somewhere. Scrap metal leaning against fences because “we might need that someday.” Random buckets with mysterious purposes. Half-finished projects. Feed bags stuffed in corners. Broken gates fixed with baling twine and determination. Coops held together with screws, zip ties, leftover wood, and hope. There’s usually at least one project that’s been “almost finished” for six months. That’s real life. That’s normal.

    And there’s something kind of beautiful about that too.

    Because most homesteaders aren’t wealthy people building a curated lifestyle for social media. Most are regular people simply trying their best to create a better life for themselves and their families with what they have available. They’re learning as they go. They’re making mistakes. They’re figuring things out one season at a time.

    That’s another thing people don’t talk about enough: homesteading can be hard. There’s a learning curve to everything. Plants die. Animals get sick. Fences fail. Gardens get destroyed by weather, pests, or pure bad luck. You’ll spend hours working on something only to realize you did it wrong and have to start over. There will absolutely be moments where you wonder why you’re doing any of it at all.

    And yes, there will probably be moments where you want to quit.

    I know I’ve had those moments.

    I’ve sat there wondering what life would look like if I didn’t have animals depending on me, chores waiting for me, weeds taking over the garden, projects piling up, or one more thing needing repaired. Sometimes it feels overwhelming. Sometimes it feels exhausting.

    But then I think about who I was before all of this.

    Before the animals. Before the garden. Before learning these skills.

    Back then, something always felt missing. I couldn’t explain it at the time, but I felt disconnected from everything. Now, even after the longest days, there’s this feeling of fulfillment that’s hard to describe unless you’ve experienced it yourself. There’s purpose in it. There’s meaning in growing something with your own hands, caring for animals, building something useful, learning new skills, and creating a life that feels more grounded and intentional.

    Homesteading isn’t about perfection.

    It’s about connection.

    Connection to your food. Connection to your environment. Connection to your family. Connection to your own capabilities. It’s about realizing you can learn things you never thought you could learn. It’s about understanding that self-sufficiency isn’t an all-or-nothing lifestyle. Every small step counts.

    And the beautiful thing is, you can start almost anywhere.

    You do not need acres of land. You do not need a giant farmhouse. You do not need expensive equipment. You do not need to know everything before you begin. I don’t care if you live in an apartment, a rental, a tiny house, or yes, even your mother’s basement — although maybe help your mom with the dishes if you do. My point is, you can still start learning. You can still grow herbs in a window. You can still learn to cook from scratch. You can still compost. You can still preserve food. You can still build skills that make you more confident, capable, and connected to the world around you.

    You start where you are.

    You use what you have.

    You grow what you can.

    And maybe that’s really what homesteading is all about.

  • Why Most People Burn Out Gardening (And How to Avoid It)

    Why Most People Burn Out Gardening (And How to Avoid It)

    Starting a garden is exciting.

    Spring arrives, the weather warms up, you have packets upon packets of seeds ready to go and suddenly it feels like anything is possible. You imagine rows of tomatoes, baskets of vegetables, and a garden full of fresh food.

    That excitement is a great thing.

    But it’s also one of the biggest reasons many beginner gardeners experience gardening burnout.

    Because when we first start gardening, it’s so easy to plant way more than we’re ready to manage.

    Today I want to talk about how easy it is to plant way too much, way too fast… why that’s exactly where most beginners burn out… and how to build a garden that actually stays fun instead of overwhelming.

    If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed trying to do everything at once, I go deeper into that in this video:

    The Excitement Trap

    When people decide to start gardening, there’s a lot of excitement involved. (As there should be).

    Buying seed varieties, choosing colorful plants, planning your bed layout — all of that gives you a little rush of motivation. It feels productive and inspiring at the same time.

    And at that stage, gardening still feels easy. (And fun).

    The plants are tiny, it’s easy to take care of them.

    You water them, check on them, maybe admire them a little bit, and everything feels manageable.

    But what a lot of beginners don’t think about yet is what happens when those little plants start getting bigger. Yes, we all know it’s inevitable. We know plants don’t stay small but what we don’t think about is the labor that goes along with it.

    Because when plants grow, the work grows too.

    When Plants Get Bigger

    As plants mature, their needs change.

    They require more water, more space, and more attention.

    Weeds will start appearing in the beds.

    Pests can show up.

    And suddenly the garden that once felt relaxing starts demanding more time than you expected.

    Now watering isn’t something you can do when you feel like it.

    It’s something you have to do when the plants need it.

    Sometimes that’s when you’re tired.

    Sometimes that’s after a long day at work.

    Sometimes that’s when you don’t really feel like going back outside.

    That’s when the excitement fades and frustration starts to creep in… and before you know it, that frustration turns into regret, negativity, and sometimes giving up altogether.

    My First Real Garden

    I remember the first year I really started to garden seriously.

    Before that I had grown a few things here and there, but this was the first year I thought I was going to grow a lot of food.

    And honestly, I kind of just winged it.

    My thinking was, “How hard can this be?” Plants grow naturally, right? Humans have been doing this forever. So I figured I’d just throw some seeds down and let nature take over… and let’s just say, she did—just not in the way I expected.

    I quickly learned that gardening involves a lot more than just “throwing some seeds down”.

    The biggest thing I didn’t account for was the weeds. There were thousands of them. At first everything looked the same to me. Tiny green sprouts everywhere and I couldn’t tell the difference between my plants and the weeds. So I didn’t know what I could pull and what I should leave. So I just didn’t do anything and by the time I finally figured out what my plants looked like and what the weeds were, the weeds had already taken over.

    There were so many that I didn’t even want to start pulling them… so I didn’t. Honestly, I completely gave up that year. But that season taught me a lot—about myself, about nature, and about what happens when you just wing it.

    And that’s the exact point where a lot of beginner gardeners start to feel defeated. (I know I sure did). Because it stops feeling fun… and starts feeling like a chore you’re already behind on.

    What I Wish I Knew Before I Started

    Looking back, one thing I would have done differently is just a little bit of research before jumping in.

    Now don’t get me wrong—there is absolutely a time to just try things and learn as you go.

    But having a basic idea of what you’re getting into makes a huge difference.

    For example, I live in a windy area.

    What I didn’t understand at the time is that wind spreads seeds—a lot of them.

    Weed seeds, grass seeds, even tree seeds… they all travel.

    So when I tossed my garden together without any kind of plan, I basically set myself up for a weed problem before I even started.

    If I had known that, I could have taken a few simple steps:

    • putting down a barrier
    • mulching early
    • planning out weed control from the beginning

    Nothing complicated—just small, preventative things.

    And that’s really the balance.

    You don’t need to know everything before you start.

    But knowing a little can save you from a lot of frustration later.

    Excitement vs What You Can Actually Manage

    One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is this:

    Your garden needs to match what you can actually manage—not just what you’re excited about.

    Excitement is what gets you started.

    But what can you manage day-to-day?
    That’s what keeps things growing.

    Your garden should fit:

    • your real schedule
    • your energy levels
    • your current experience

    A small, well-maintained garden will always outperform a big one that burns you out.

    Because when it feels doable, you stick with it.

    The Harvest Problem

    Another thing beginners don’t always think about is the harvest.

    Because when plants grow well… they really grow.

    And if you planted a big garden without a plan for what you’re actually going to do with that food, it can get overwhelming fast.

    Suddenly you’ve got baskets of vegetables sitting on your counter… and you’re not quite sure what to do with all of it.

    Maybe you don’t know how to preserve it yet.
    Maybe you don’t have time to deal with it.
    Or maybe—if we’re being honest—your family doesn’t even eat that vegetable.

    And this is something I see all the time…

    When everything feels exciting, you want to grow everything.

    And I’m all for experimenting and trying new things.

    But if you’re growing squash just because someone told you to… and no one in your house actually eats squash… what are you going to do with it?

    That’s why one of the best things you can do as a beginner is start with foods your family already eats.

    Because when your harvest fits naturally into your meals, it doesn’t feel overwhelming—it feels useful.

    And that’s what keeps gardening rewarding.

    Systems Prevent Burnout

    Over time, what helped me avoid gardening burnout wasn’t working harder.

    It was building better systems.

    Things like:

    • having clear garden pathways
    • smaller, more manageable beds
    • a compost system
    • daily observation habits

    These systems reduce friction and make daily garden tasks easier.

    When your garden is designed to work with your routine instead of against it, everything becomes more manageable.

    Gardening stops feeling overwhelming and starts feeling sustainable.

    If you’re just getting started and want a few simple tools to help you plan and organize your garden, you can check out my freebie hub, where I have tons of free printable ready for you to snag up!

    Freebie Hub

    A Garden Should Fit Your Life

    At the end of the day, gardening should add something positive to your life.

    It should feel productive, peaceful, and rewarding.

    Not overwhelming.

    Always start smaller than you think you should. Learn to grow a few things and learn how your space works. Then expand your garden as your experience grows.

    If you’d like a deeper look at building a garden that’s practical and manageable, I talk about these ideas in my book Garden Smarter Not Harder, which focuses on creating simple systems and habits that make gardening easier over time.

    The Grounded Homestead Series — Book 2 Garden Smarter, Not Harder

    Gardens don’t have to be perfect to feed your family and remember that your confidence and skills will grow right along side your plants.

  • Small Gardening Habits That Make Your Garden Easier to Manage

    Small Gardening Habits That Make Your Garden Easier to Manage

    When people picture gardening, they often imagine long weekends outside.

    Hours spent planting.
    Entire afternoons pulling weeds.
    Big seasonal projects that take up half the day.

    And while those days absolutely happen sometimes, the truth is that most successful gardens aren’t built in one long weekend.

    They’re built in small habits.

    Tiny actions repeated over time.

    A few minutes here.
    A quick check there.
    A short routine that becomes part of your day.

    Those small habits add up faster than people think.

    Gardening Success Isn’t About Motivation

    One of the biggest misconceptions about gardening is that you need to feel motivated to do it.

    You don’t.

    What you need are systems and habits that make caring for your garden part of your normal routine.

    This is where something called habit stacking becomes incredibly useful.

    Habit stacking simply means attaching a new habit to something you already do every day.

    Instead of trying to create brand-new routines, you piggyback off existing ones.

    What Habit Stacking Looks Like in the Garden

    Think about the things you already do every morning.

    You wake up.
    You pour a cup of coffee.
    You step outside.
    You check the weather.

    These are perfect anchor points for small gardening habits.

    For example:

    When you pour your morning coffee, take five minutes to water your plants.

    When you step outside in the morning, walk past the garden and do a quick observation check.

    If you have a greenhouse, make it part of your morning routine to open it and check moisture levels.

    You’re not adding a brand new task to your day.

    You’re simply attaching gardening to something that already exists.

    Start With Five Minutes

    A lot of people quit gardening because they feel overwhelmed before they even start.

    They imagine hours of work and giant gardens that require constant attention.

    But the reality is that a garden can be maintained in very small increments of time.

    Five minutes matters.

    Five minutes can be used to:

    • water seedlings
    • pull a few weeds
    • check for pests
    • harvest a handful of vegetables
    • adjust plant supports
    • observe how plants are growing

    Those small actions prevent problems before they become big ones.

    And over time, five minutes often turns into ten.

    Then fifteen.

    Not because you forced it — but because you start enjoying the routine.

    Build Systems That Support Your Habits

    Habits are easier to keep when your environment supports them.

    This means organizing your garden and tools so tasks feel simple and accessible.

    For example:

    Keep a small watering can near your seed trays.

    Store hand tools where you can grab them quickly.

    Place garden beds somewhere you naturally walk past each day.

    The easier something is to start, the more likely you are to actually do it.

    If watering your plants requires finding tools, dragging hoses, or walking across the property, you’re less likely to do it consistently.

    But if everything is within reach, the habit sticks.

    Examples of Small Gardening Habits

    Here are a few ways YOU can build small routines to integrate gardening into your life.

    Morning routine:

    Wake up ten minutes earlier.
    Pour your coffee.
    Step outside and check your plants.

    Midday routine:

    If you work from home or take lunch breaks at home, spend five minutes in the garden doing a quick walk-through.

    Evening routine:

    Before heading inside for the night, harvest anything that’s ready and pull a couple weeds.

    These moments don’t feel like chores.

    They feel like check-ins.

    Observation Is One of the Most Powerful Habits

    One of the most valuable gardening habits you can develop is simply paying attention.

    Observation helps you catch small problems early.

    You’ll notice:

    • pests before they spread
    • plants needing water
    • early signs of disease
    • vegetables ready to harvest

    When you interact with your garden daily, even briefly, your awareness increases.

    And awareness prevents overwhelm.

    Gardening Grows With You

    The beautiful thing about small habits is that they grow naturally over time.

    You might start with one tray of seedlings.

    Then a couple containers.

    Then a small raised bed.

    Not because you rushed into it — but because your confidence grew alongside your habits.

    And that’s how sustainable gardens are built.

    Not in bursts of motivation.

    But in steady routines.

    Start Small and Let It Grow

    If you want your garden to succeed long term, start smaller than you think you need to.

    Build simple habits.

    Create systems that support those habits.

    And give yourself permission to grow slowly.

    Five minutes today might not seem like much.

    But over an entire season, those five minutes add up to something powerful.

    A garden that fits your life.

    A routine that feels natural.

    And food that grows because you showed up consistently.

    Small habits.
    Steady progress.
    Real food on your table.

    Need More Help Getting Started?

    If you’re starting this season and want something simple to guide you, I created a free printable to help.

    Seed Starting Made Simple is an 11-page beginner-friendly guide that helps you find your frost date, plan your seed timeline, avoid common mistakes, and track your plants as they grow.

    You can download it here:
    👉 https://homesteadingwithbeckyj.com/freebie-hub

    And if you’d like a deeper look at building a garden that actually fits your life, my ebook Garden Smarter, Not Harder (Book 2 in The Grounded Homesteader Series) is available now.

    It focuses on simple systems, growing what makes sense for your household, and creating a garden that’s sustainable — not overwhelming.

    Grab it here:
    👉 https://homesteadingwithbeckyj.blog/product/the-grounded-homestead-series-book-2-garden-smarter-not-harder/

    Small steps. Steady growth. Real food.

  • Grow What You Actually Eat

    Grow What You Actually Eat

    There’s a lot of noise in the gardening world.

    Grow this heirloom.
    Try this exotic plant.
    You need 17 varieties of squash.
    Look at these purple striped tomatoes.

    And listen — experimenting is fun. Trying new things is part of learning.

    But this post isn’t for the experimenters.

    This is for the person who grows their little heart out… harvests armloads of produce… and then stands in the kitchen thinking:

    “What am I supposed to do with all of this?”

    If you’re short on space, short on time, or just getting started — you don’t need to grow what everyone else is growing.

    You need to grow what your family actually eats.

    You Don’t Owe Anyone an Explanation

    There’s this quiet pressure in gardening culture to grow certain things.

    Like if you don’t grow zucchini, are you even gardening?

    If you don’t have rows of squash, pumpkins, kale, cabbage, cucumbers, herbs, and specialty tomatoes… are you doing it wrong?

    No.

    You don’t owe anyone an explanation for what you choose to grow.

    If your family doesn’t eat squash, don’t plant four squash plants.

    If no one in your house likes eggplant, skip it.

    If your kids won’t touch kale, don’t dedicate precious space to it.

    Your garden should serve your household — not Instagram, Pinterest, or whatever social media platform you are comparing yourself to.

    Start With What You Already Buy

    If you want a simple starting point, walk into your kitchen.

    Open your fridge.
    Open your pantry.

    What do you buy over and over again?

    That’s your list.

    If you go through:

    • salsa weekly
    • pasta sauce monthly
    • peppers constantly
    • lettuce every week
    • potatoes every few days

    Start there.

    Growing staples you already use does three powerful things:

    1. It saves you money.
    2. It reduces waste.
    3. It increases your confidence.

    There’s nothing more motivating than walking into your pantry and pulling out food you grew — and knowing it will actually get eaten.

    Space Is Valuable — Use It Intentionally

    When space is limited, every square foot matters.

    Every container.
    Every raised bed.
    Every row.

    If you only have room for six plants, make them count.

    Ask yourself:

    Will this realistically get eaten in my house?

    If the answer is no — it might not be the right crop right now.

    You can always experiment later when you have more time, more space, or more experience.

    But in the beginning?

    Grow food with purpose.

    This Isn’t About Playing It Safe

    Let’s be clear — this isn’t about never trying anything new.

    It’s about being intentional.

    If you love experimenting, go for it.

    But if you’re the type who will:

    • plant everything
    • harvest everything
    • then feel overwhelmed and discouraged

    Start smaller.

    Start practical.

    Let your wins build momentum.

    What If You Grow Too Much?

    It happens. Especially with tomatoes.

    And here’s the beautiful thing about gardening:

    Extra harvest is never wasted.

    You can:

    • Feed it to chickens or livestock
    • Share with friends and neighbors
    • Donate to a local food bank
    • Preserve it for later

    Confidence Comes From Repetition

    When you grow the same crops year after year:

    You learn them.
    You understand their timing.
    You recognize their pests.
    You improve your yields.

    Patterns emerge.

    And gardening starts to feel easier.

    Not because it is perfect — but because it is familiar.

    Grow For Your Life — Not Someone Else’s

    If you love salsa, grow tomatoes and peppers.

    If you eat salads daily, grow lettuce, spinach or kale.

    If your family runs on potatoes, grow potatoes.

    And….if you don’t eat something?

    You don’t need to justify why it’s not in your garden.

    Your garden isn’t a performance.

    It’s a tool.

    Start with what you eat.
    Build confidence.
    Expand when you’re ready.

    That’s how sustainable gardens are built.

    Small steps.
    Intentional crops.
    Real food on your table.

  • The Easiest Vegetables to Grow for Beginner Homesteaders

    The Easiest Vegetables to Grow for Beginner Homesteaders

    One of the biggest mistakes new gardeners make is assuming that if a vegetable grows well for someone else, it will grow well for them too. Social media makes it easy to believe that success looks the same everywhere — but gardening is deeply personal to your location, climate, AND timing.

    Before we even talk about what’s “easy” to grow, we need to talk about zones.

    Gardening Zones & Why They Matter

    Your growing zone helps determine what plants can survive your seasons, but it doesn’t tell the full story. Two gardeners in the same zone can have completely different results depending on heat, humidity, wind, soil type, and how quickly temperatures change.

    Don’t know what zone you’re in? Check out the link below.

    https://planthardiness.ars.usda.gov/

    So if your favorite garden influencer is growing beautiful broccoli and you can’t keep it alive to save your life — it doesn’t mean you’re bad at gardening. It usually just means that plant isn’t well suited to your climate or growing season.

    The key to beginner success is choosing crops that are forgiving, adaptable, and productive, even when conditions aren’t perfect.

    Root Crops: The Best Place to Start

    If you’re brand new to gardening, root crops are some of the easiest and most reliable vegetables to grow.

    Think:

    • Carrots
    • Radishes
    • Beets
    • Turnips
    • Potatoes

    These crops grow underground, which protects them from a lot of environmental stress. They don’t require constant pruning, trellising, or special care. As long as your soil isn’t rock-hard and you keep them watered, they mostly take care of themselves.

    Radishes are especially great for beginners because they grow fast, helping you build confidence early in the season.

    Leafy Greens: Easy, Fast, and Productive

    Leafy greens are another beginner favorite — with one important tip: they prefer cooler weather.

    Great beginner greens include:

    • Lettuce
    • Spinach
    • Kale
    • Arugula

    These crops grow quickly and can often be harvested multiple times. They do best in spring and fall, and many varieties will tolerate light frosts.

    If you live somewhere that warms up quickly, look for heat-tolerant varieties, but keep expectations realistic. Even heat-tolerant greens can bolt (go to seed) once summer heat sets in. That’s not failure — it’s just how these plants respond to temperature changes.

    Planting greens early, providing shade, and harvesting often will help extend the season.

    Tomatoes: Easier Than People Think (With a Few Rules)

    Tomatoes get labeled as “hard,” but in my opinion, they’re actually pretty easy once you understand a few basics.

    Here’s what matters most:

    • Plant them deep. Tomatoes grow roots along buried stems, which leads to stronger plants.
    • Use compost or add nutrients. Tomatoes are heavy feeders and need ongoing nutrition as they grow.
    • Give them support early. Cages, stakes, or trellises prevent breakage and disease.
    • Water consistently. Irregular watering causes more problems than almost anything else.

    If you get these basics right, tomatoes are incredibly productive and forgiving. Cherry and paste varieties tend to be especially beginner-friendly.

    Herbs: Low Effort, High Reward

    Herbs are one of the most overlooked beginner crops — and one of the most rewarding.

    Easy herbs include:

    • Basil
    • Parsley
    • Cilantro
    • Thyme
    • Oregano
    • Chives

    Many herbs tolerate poor soil, don’t require much space, and can be grown in beds, containers, or even tucked into other garden areas. Perennial herbs like thyme and oregano come back year after year, making them especially low maintenance.

    Plus, harvesting herbs regularly encourages more growth — which is exactly what beginners want.

    What to Know Before You Plant (And Why That’s Okay)

    Even though the vegetables on this list are considered “easy” for beginners, they all come with their own little stipulations. Gardening isn’t about mastering everything at once — there are a lot of small details to learn, and the best way to learn them is one step at a time. You can read five books and watch endless videos, but until you actually get your hands in the soil, not everything will stick. Each of these plants thrives under slightly different conditions, and it’s worth taking a little time to research. Yes, you can go to the store, buy some seeds, toss them in the ground, and see what happens — and honestly, sometimes that works. Just don’t expect a perfect or high success rate right out of the gate. Gardening is a process, and every season teaches you something new.

    The Real Secret to Beginner Gardening Success

    When you start thinking about gardening, reaching for beginner-friendly crops is one of the easiest ways to increase your chances of success. Keep your growing zone and local climate in mind, and take the time to do a little research on what grows well in your area. Try not to get caught up in someone else’s garden highlight reel — what works for them may not work for you. Gardening is a learning process, and every season teaches you something new. Enjoy the process, learn along the way, and happy gardening.

  • The Best Homestead Tools You 10 Homestead Tools You Didn’t Know You Needed (But Totally Do)

    The Best Homestead Tools You 10 Homestead Tools You Didn’t Know You Needed (But Totally Do)

    Homesteading is one of those magical lifestyles that can make you feel like a pioneer, a farmer, and a DIY expert all at once. But let’s be honest — it’s also a great excuse to collect tools. And not just a few tools… a lot of tools.

    From soil meters to log splitters, some of these gadgets you might not even know exist until you stumble across them — and suddenly, your homestead feels incomplete without them. Each one promises to make chores faster, projects smoother, and life just a little bit easier.

    Here’s the truth: you probably don’t need every tool on the market, but the right ones can completely change the way you work. Whether you’re building fences, tending chickens, or perfecting your garden, these are the tools that make everyday homesteading more efficient, more rewarding, and — let’s be honest — a whole lot more fun.

    1. The Mighty Post Hole Digger (Because Shovels Are for Amateurs)

    If you’re setting up a fence (or anything that needs solid, straight posts), you’ll quickly learn that a regular shovel just won’t cut it. Enter the post hole digger — the unsung hero of every sturdy homestead project. This tool makes quick work of deep, narrow holes, giving you cleaner edges and better depth control than a shovel ever could.

    It slices through soil like a champ and saves your back from a whole lot of unnecessary bending and scooping. Once you’ve used one, you’ll wonder how you ever managed without it. Trust me — this is one of those “why didn’t I buy this sooner?” tools every homesteader needs in their arsenal.

    2. The Weed Torch (Fire and Gardening—What Could Go Wrong?)

    It always feels like the weeds grow faster than anything you actually planted. That’s where a weed torch comes in — basically a flamethrower for your garden (and yes, it’s as fun as it sounds). This handy tool lets you clear weeds without chemicals, leaving your soil clean and ready for planting.

    The trick is using it safely and strategically. A quick pass of heat causes the weeds to wilt and die, but you don’t need to light them up like a campfire — a little flame goes a long way. Keep a hose or water source nearby, work on calm, dry days, and always steer clear of your plants and mulch.

    Once you try it, you’ll understand why it’s become a homesteader favorite. It’s fast, effective, and—let’s be honest—just a little bit satisfying to watch those stubborn weeds finally surrender. (Also a necessity when singeing birds during butchering.)

    3. The Multi-Tool Scythe (For When You Want to Feel Like a Medieval Farmer)

    You could use a mower or string trimmer, but where’s the charm in that? The scythe is an old-school tool that proves simple, well-made equipment can still outshine the fancy stuff. It’s quiet, eco-friendly, and surprisingly efficient once you get the hang of the rhythm.

    A sharp, properly fitted scythe slices through tall grass, weeds, and even small brush with ease — no gas, no cords, no noise. It’s also a full-body workout (you’ll feel it in your core and shoulders after just a few passes).

    Sure, it might make you look like you stepped out of a medieval movie, but that’s half the fun. There’s something deeply satisfying about working with a tool that connects you to generations of homesteaders who swung a blade before you — no electricity required.

    4. The Chicken Plucker (Because Feathers Are the Worst)

    Feathers everywhere, slippery hands, endless patience required… it’s a whole ordeal. That’s why every serious homesteader eventually invests in a chicken plucker — a machine that spins the bird and removes feathers in seconds. Think of it like a washing machine for poultry, only far less messy than doing it by hand.

    This tool can save you hours of work, especially if you process multiple birds at once. It gives a cleaner finish, reduces fatigue, and makes the whole butchering process much more manageable (and, honestly, a little more enjoyable).

    Just remember — it’s not exactly a dainty tool. A plucker can be loud and a bit bulky, so plan for a dedicated space in your barn or processing area. Trust me, though — once you’ve used one, you’ll never go back to hand-plucking again. 🪶

    5. The Log Splitter (For When You’re Not Really Feeling the Axe Life)

    This machine turns what used to be an all-day, back-breaking job into something you can actually enjoy. It splits logs cleanly, quickly, and with way less effort — which means more time for the fun parts of homesteading (or, let’s be honest, a second cup of coffee).

    I’ve tried chopping wood by hand, and let’s just say… I’d throw my back out before I made it through a single tree. The log splitter saves both time and my spine. It’s also perfect for splitting smaller pieces for kindling, prepping firewood for neighbors, or stocking up before the cold weather hits.

    Whether you use a manual, electric, or gas-powered splitter, this tool is one of those “work smarter, not harder” upgrades you’ll never regret

    6. The Electric Fencing Tester (For the Safety of Your Livestock…and You)

    This small but mighty gadget tells you whether your fence is properly charged — and trust me, it’s worth its weight in gold when it comes to keeping curious goats from going on “neighborhood adventures.” A quick test can save you hours of chasing, fixing, and apologizing to your neighbors later.

    An electric fencing tester measures the voltage running through your line so you can catch weak spots or grounding issues before they cause trouble. They’re simple to use, inexpensive, and essential for anyone running electric fencing on a homestead.

    Yes, it looks like a tiny toy, but don’t underestimate it — this little tool is your first line of defense against escape artists with hooves. Keep it handy, check your fence regularly, and rest easy knowing your animals are safely where they belong.

    7. The Soil pH Meter (Because Plants Don’t Like Surprises)

    A soil pH meter is a simple, affordable tool that helps you figure out whether your soil is too acidic or too alkaline — both of which can seriously affect how your plants grow. It’s one of those small gadgets that can make a big difference in your garden’s success.

    Sure, there are other ways to test your soil pH — like sending samples to your local extension office or the old school vinegar vs baking soda method. But honestly? The meter is quicker, cleaner, and way more fun to use. (And let’s be real — who doesn’t like a good gadget that makes you feel like a garden scientist for a few minutes?)

    Just stick the probe in, check the reading, and adjust your soil as needed. You’ll save yourself a ton of guessing — and maybe finally figure out why those tomatoes have been giving you attitude.

    Final Thoughts

    The truth is, homesteading tools are a lot like potato chips — you can’t stop at just one. Once you realize how much easier the right tool makes your chores, you’ll start building a collection of gadgets and gizmos that all feel essential.

    But here’s the thing — it’s not about having every shiny new tool. It’s about finding the ones that make your work more efficient, your body less sore, and your days a little smoother. Every homestead is different, and so is every toolkit.

    Homesteading is built on resourcefulness — using what you have, learning what works for you, and adapting as you grow. So go ahead, embrace your favorite tools, your not-so-pretty-but-practical gear, and the beautiful chaos that comes with it all. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about the tools themselves — it’s about the life you’re building with them.

  • “I Can’t Do It All” to “I’ll Do It My Way”: Finding Freedom in Everyday Homesteading

    Homesteading has a way of making us feel like we have to do everything all at once. You scroll through Pinterest or Instagram and see the perfect bread loaves, the spotless garden rows, the DIY farmhouse kitchen, and you think—“I can’t do it all.” And honestly? You’re right.

    But here’s the secret: you don’t have to.

    Homesteading isn’t about perfection or doing everything in one season. It’s about creating a lifestyle that works for you, in your space, on your budget, with your schedule. When you shift your mindset from “I can’t do it all” to “I’ll do it my way,” homesteading suddenly becomes doable, sustainable, and—most importantly—enjoyable.

    Perfection Isn’t the Goal—Progress Is

    There’s a lot of pressure in the homesteading world to make everything picture-perfect. But let’s be real: your goats are going to break a fence, your garden will get weedy, and that sourdough starter might flop. That doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you’re learning.

    Progress happens in the small steps: planting one raised bed this year instead of an entire acre, raising two chickens before you invest in a full flock, or canning just a few jars instead of a pantry wall. These little wins build your skills and your confidence.

    Pinterest-Worthy vs. Real Life

    Pinterest and Instagram can be inspiring, but they can also be discouraging. Behind every “perfect” homestead photo is a mess you don’t see—the dishes piled up in the sink, the weeds just out of the camera frame, the failed projects tucked away in the shed.

    Real life homesteading is messy. It’s mud on the boots, crooked fences, and bread that doesn’t always rise. And that’s okay. What matters isn’t how it looks online—it’s how it feels to you.

    Doable and Workable Beats Perfect

    A homestead that works for your family doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. Maybe your animals are in smaller pens than someone else’s. Maybe your garden is containers on the deck instead of rows in a field. Maybe your bread comes from a bread machine instead of a handmade sourdough.

    That doesn’t make it less valuable—it makes it workable. And a homestead that actually fits into your life will always beat one that leaves you burned out chasing perfection.

    Not Everything Works for Everyone—and That’s Perfectly Okay

    Some people thrive on dairy goats, others realize they hate milking and switch to chickens. Some people love pressure canning, others prefer freezing their harvest. What works beautifully for one homesteader might not fit your lifestyle at all.

    Instead of seeing that as failure, see it as freedom. You don’t have to copy anyone else’s version of homesteading. You get to create your own.

    Shifting the Mindset

    The most freeing mindset shift you can make is this:

    • From: “I can’t do it all.”
    • To: “I’ll do it my way.”

    That simple reframe takes the pressure off. It gives you permission to try, to fail, to adjust, and to find what actually works for your life. And that’s what true homesteading is about—building a lifestyle that sustains you, not one that drains you.

    Final Thoughts

    Your homestead doesn’t have to be perfect to be worth it. It doesn’t have to be Pinterest-worthy to be valuable. It just has to be yours—messy, doable, workable, and real.

    So, the next time you find yourself saying, “I can’t do it all,” remind yourself: you don’t have to. You only have to do it your way.