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  • What Book Are You Reading Right Now? Here’s Mine.

    What Book Are You Reading Right Now? Here’s Mine.

    Daily writing prompt
    What book are you reading right now?
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    One of my favorite questions to ask people—online or in real life—is “What book are you reading right now?” It always sparks good conversation and gives me new ideas for my own reading list.

    Right now, I’m working my way through The Courage to Be Disliked by two Japanese authors, Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga. And let me tell you… the title throws people off so fast.

    I’ve already had several coworkers glance over during my break and say things like:
    “Whoa… you okay?”
    “Are you about to start snapping at people?”
    Or my favorite: “Dang Becky, who you mad at?” 😂

    But here’s the thing: the book isn’t about becoming rude or suddenly deciding you hate everyone. Not even close.

    What the Book Is Actually About(so far)

    I just started it, but it’s already taking a surprisingly deep look at happiness, personal responsibility, and why we hold ourselves back in life.

    The best way I can describe it—without quoting the book—is this:

    It’s the idea that sometimes we self-sabotage because staying in our comfort zone feels safer than changing our lives… even when we want the change.

    For example:

    Let’s say I really want a new job. I apply, I get the interview… and then I totally bomb it. On the surface, it looks like bad luck or nerves.
    But this philosophy suggests that, deep down, I might be subconsciously messing it up because I don’t actually believe I can handle the new job. Or because the unfamiliar feels too risky compared to the safety of what I already know.

    Not intentionally, not maliciously—just a quiet “holding ourselves back” that happens under the surface.

    It’s an interesting take, honestly. A little uncomfortable in that good, growth-mindset way.

    Why I Love Books Like This

    I’ve always been fascinated by how the human mind works—why we do what we do, why we get stuck, and how we can grow.

    Everyone has their own beliefs and values, of course. But I think it’s important to stay curious about different perspectives, because we’re all trying to make sense of this spinning rock we call home.

    And so far, this book is pushing me to reflect on my own habits, fears, and patterns. Sometimes it’s nice when a book gently calls you out… without fully dragging you across the floor. 😅

    Do you have any book recommendations that explore mindset, personal growth, or the way we shape our own happiness?
    Drop them in the comments — I love adding new reads to my list!

  • The Biggest Risk I Haven’t Taken Yet

    The Biggest Risk I Haven’t Taken Yet

    Daily writing prompt
    What’s the biggest risk you’d like to take — but haven’t been able to?
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    If you asked me what my biggest dream is, I’d tell you without hesitation: to be home full-time — creating, growing, and living the life I’ve worked so hard to build.

    For years I’ve carried this quiet dream in my heart — to trade the rush of a 9-to-5 job for the rhythm of the homestead. To pour my mornings into coffee and content, my afternoons into chores and animals, and my evenings into writing words that help someone else believe they can do it too.

    It’s not that I dislike working. I’ve always been grateful for the stability, the routine, and the purpose it’s given me. But there’s a difference between making a living and building a life. And lately, I’ve felt the pull toward something slower, deeper, and more meaningful — the kind of life that’s measured in sunsets, seedlings, and laughter from the barnyard.

    Finding Peace in the Waiting

    I used to dream of being a stay-at-home mom, but life had other plans. And for a long time, I wrestled with that — with the feeling that my story didn’t go the way I thought it would. But somewhere along the way, I made peace with it.

    Because here’s the truth: every chapter, even the hard ones, is leading me exactly where I’m supposed to be. I may not have been home when my kids were little, but now I’m growing a new kind of “home life” — one that’s centered on my animals, my land, and my purpose.

    Each morning before work, when I’m out feeding goats or collecting eggs, I feel it — that small whisper that says, “Someday, this will be your every day.”

    Building Toward the Dream

    So for now, I’m working on the dream one piece at a time — through my blog, my courses, and every little bit of content I create. I want to help other people learn that homesteading isn’t just about animals and gardens — it’s about mindset, courage, and creating a life that feels real.

    Yes, quitting my job would be a risk. But it’s one I’m preparing for — slowly, intentionally, and with a lot of faith. I don’t want to leap out of fear or frustration; I want to step forward with peace, knowing I’ve built something solid enough to stand on.

    The Vision That Keeps Me Going

    When I picture the future, it looks like this: mornings spent with coffee and chores, afternoons writing and filming lessons about self-sufficiency, evenings in the garden with dirt on my hands and gratitude in my heart.

    And maybe, years from now, I’ll be out there homeschooling my grandkids under the shade of the same trees I planted — teaching them how to grow food, care for animals, and live simply. If that’s where life leads me, I’ll be more than okay with it.

    Because to me, success isn’t about escaping work — it’s about building a life that feels like home.

    💛 Your Turn

    What’s the biggest risk you’ve been dreaming about — but haven’t taken yet? Maybe it’s starting your own business, moving to the country, or finally saying “yes” to that thing that’s been tugging at your heart.

    Drop it in the comments — I’d love to hear what dream you’re growing toward. 🌿

  • Do You Remember Your Favorite Book from Childhood?

    Do You Remember Your Favorite Book from Childhood?

    When people talk about their favorite childhood book, they often light up with nostalgia. For many, it’s something they clutched tight at bedtime, read under the covers with a flashlight, or shared in a parent’s lap. But for me, the book that holds the most meaning didn’t come from my own childhood—it came from a moment of rebuilding and resilience during my daughter’s early years.

    The book is The Donut Chef by Bob Staake. It’s whimsical, playful, and rhythmically delightful—the kind of story that rolls off the tongue and lights up a toddler’s imagination. It tells the tale of two rival donut shop owners on the same street, each inventing wild and creative new donuts to outdo the other. It’s charming, silly, and just plain fun.

    But that’s not why it matters to me.

    I first read The Donut Chef to my daughter during one of the most difficult transitions of our lives. We had just fled an abusive relationship, driven hours away, and found shelter in a family member’s home. There was a restraining order in place. Everything we knew had changed overnight.

    In the middle of that chaos, The Donut Chef became our little daily ritual. I read it to her every single day. Sometimes twice. It made her laugh. It gave us something silly to look forward to. And in those few minutes, it gave me the feeling that we were going to be okay.

    She loved the donuts. I loved the escape. And somehow, even now, I can still hear the sing-song rhythm of the words echoing in my memory.

    My daughter was obsessed with the donut shop down the street, and I’ve always loved baking—maybe that’s another reason the book stuck with us. But what made it special wasn’t just the story. It was what the story meant at the time: stability, joy, and the beginning of something new.

    So when I ask myself, Was it the book I loved or the memories tied to it?—the answer is: both.

    Because books aren’t just words on a page. They become stitched into the fabric of our lives, into the moments that define us.

    To this day, The Donut Chef still lives on my bookshelf. A reminder that even during the hardest chapters, there can still be joy in the simple act of reading aloud with someone you love.

  • The Therapeutic Power of Caring for Animals: How Animals Improve Mental Health

    The Therapeutic Power of Caring for Animals: How Animals Improve Mental Health

    In today’s fast-paced world, stress, anxiety, and mental fatigue have become part of daily life. Many people seek relief through therapy, meditation, or medication, but one of the most natural and rewarding ways to improve mental well-being is by caring for animals.

    Whether you’re tending to backyard chickens, raising goats, or simply spending time with a pet, animals offer incredible therapeutic benefits. They provide companionship, reduce stress, and bring a sense of purpose. In this article, we’ll explore how interacting with animals can enhance mental health, encourage mindfulness, and even improve physical well-being.

     Animals Help Reduce Stress and Anxiety

    How does this work?

    • When we pet an animal, our nervous system responds by reducing blood pressure and slowing our heart rate, helping us feel more at ease.
    • Simply being in the presence of animals can trigger a calming response in our bodies, similar to deep breathing or meditation.
    • The rhythmic nature of farm work—like feeding animals or tending to their shelter—can have a meditative quality, further reducing anxiety.

    For those struggling with chronic stress, daily interactions with animals offer a natural way to reset and recharge. The simple act of watching a chicken peck at the ground or feeling a goat nuzzle your hand can be incredibly grounding, helping you to focus on the present moment rather than spiraling thoughts.

    A Natural Way to Improve Mood and Emotional Well-Being

    Animals have a way of lifting our spirits. They offer unconditional companionship, creating a sense of connection that can be incredibly healing. This is why animal-assisted therapy is often used for individuals experiencing depression, trauma, or PTSD.

    Here’s how animals help boost mood:

    • They provide companionship. Animals never judge or criticize. Their presence alone can ease feelings of loneliness, making them ideal companions for those who feel isolated.
    • They bring joy through play. Whether it’s a goat playfully hopping around the yard or chickens excitedly coming to greet you, their natural behavior can be entertaining and uplifting.
    • They offer comfort in difficult times. Many people find solace in sitting quietly with their animals, allowing them to process emotions in a peaceful setting.

    Even if you’re feeling down, animals have a way of reminding you of the simple joys in life—like a morning spent watching the sunrise with your animals grazing nearby.

    Caring for Animals Brings a Sense of Purpose

    Having a reason to get up in the morning is essential for mental well-being. For many people, animals provide that purpose. Whether it’s ensuring they have food, cleaning their shelters, or tending to their health, animals depend on us, which creates a fulfilling sense of responsibility.

    This is especially helpful for individuals who:

    • Are experiencing burnout or mental exhaustion
    • Are dealing with grief or loss
    • Feel unmotivated or lost

    Caring for animals offers a daily routine, which is crucial for maintaining mental stability. It gives us small, manageable tasks that build confidence and remind us that we are capable of making a positive impact.

    Even something as simple as collecting fresh eggs each morning can provide a sense of accomplishment, reinforcing the idea that our efforts matter, no matter how small the task.

    Animals Encourage Mindfulness and Presence

    Unlike humans, animals live completely in the present moment. They don’t worry about the future or dwell on the past. They focus only on what’s happening right now—whether that’s eating, resting, or enjoying the sunshine.

    When we care for animals, we are encouraged to do the same.

    • Watching a chicken scratch at the dirt, a goat nibble on hay, or a dog lie in the sun forces us to slow down and appreciate the simplicity of the moment.
    • Routine tasks like feeding, brushing, or walking animals create a natural rhythm that allows us to focus on what’s directly in front of us.
    • The sensory experience—hearing the soft scratching from your guinea pigs playing, feeling the warmth of a cats fur, or smelling the fresh air of the outdoors—grounds us in the present.

    In a world where we are constantly bombarded with notifications, emails, and distractions, animals provide a natural escape from overstimulation. They remind us to step away, breathe deeply, and appreciate life’s simple pleasures.

    The Physical Benefits of Animal Care

    Caring for animals isn’t just good for the mind—it’s also great for the body.
    Many animal-related tasks involve physical movement, which can improve overall health and boost endorphins, the body’s natural “feel-good” chemicals.

    How animal care promotes physical well-being:

    • Daily movement: Feeding, cleaning, and handling animals require physical activity, even if it’s just light movement.
    • Fresh air and sunlight: Spending time outdoors with animals increases Vitamin D intake, which is linked to better mood and immune function.
    • Improved sleep: Regular exposure to natural light and physical movement can regulate sleep patterns, making it easier to rest at night.

    Even if you don’t consider yourself an active person, the gentle, purposeful movement that comes with animal care can significantly benefit your health—without it feeling like exercise.

    Building Connection and Empathy

    Caring for animals nurtures empathy and emotional intelligence. It teaches us to be patient, observant, and attuned to the needs of another living being.

    How animals help us connect:

    • Recognizing their emotions: Animals communicate their feelings in subtle ways—through body language, sounds, and behavior. Learning to understand them strengthens our ability to empathize.
    • Providing care and affection: Meeting an animal’s needs fosters compassion, reminding us of the importance of kindness—not just toward animals, but also toward people.
    • Strengthening human relationships: Many people find that the patience and attentiveness learned from caring for animals improves their relationships with others.

    Animals offer non-verbal communication, allowing us to connect in a way that goes beyond words. For many, this deep bond provides comfort and healing in a way that human interactions sometimes cannot.

    Final Thoughts: A Natural Path to Healing

    If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, anxious, or disconnected, spending time with animals may be the perfect remedy. Their companionship, the responsibility of care, and the calming effect of their presence create a natural and effective way to improve mental health.

    Whether you raise backyard chickens, tend to goats, or simply enjoy the company of a pet, the bond you share with them can reduce stress, boost mood, and foster a deep sense of purpose.

    So, the next time life feels chaotic, step outside. Take a moment to be with your animals, breathe in the fresh air, and embrace the simple, healing power they offer. You may just find that they’re the best therapists you’ll ever have.

    How Have Animals Helped You?

    Do you have animals that bring you joy and peace? Have they helped you through tough times? Share your experiences in the comments—I’d love to hear how animals have impacted your mental well-being!

  • What Does the First Hour of Your Day Look Like?

    What Does the First Hour of Your Day Look Like?

    Daily writing prompt
    What are your morning rituals? What does the first hour of your day look like?
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    The first hour of my day is a quiet, sacred time that sets the tone for the rest of the day. As someone who thrives in the stillness of the morning, I’ve come to cherish this hour, finding it to be both productive and peaceful. My mornings are a blend of self-care, caring for my animals, and preparing for the busy day ahead. It’s an intentional routine that helps me stay grounded, energized and ready to take on anything the day may bring.

    Waking Up Early: A Moment of Peace

    I make it a point to wake up early every day. The house is quiet, the world is still asleep, and it feels like the perfect opportunity to set my intentions for the day. I’ve always enjoyed the tranquility of the early hours — there’s something about the calmness of the world that helps me feel centered. I know that if I don’t take advantage of this time, it’ll be harder for me to fit in everything in that I want to do.

    Working Out: The Best Way to Start the Day

    Once I get up, the first thing I do is head to my workout space. I find that morning exercise is key to my mental and physical well-being. Whether it’s a quick workout or a more intense session, it’s the boost I need to feel alert and ready to face the day. I’ve learned over time that if I don’t work out in the morning, I’m unlikely to do it at all, so this is non-negotiable for me and I never regret it.

    Meditation & Quiet Time: Setting the Tone for the Day

    After my workout, I take a few moments for myself. I sometimes meditate, but I also enjoy simply having quiet time. This is when I clear my mind and gather my thoughts, allowing myself to mentally prepare for the day ahead. This peace is essential for me to stay calm and focused throughout my hectic schedule. It’s my personal reset button before diving into everything else.

    Coffee & Local News: Staying Connected

    With the quiet time done, I make myself a cup of coffee — a ritual I genuinely enjoy. The warm mug in my hands as I sip slowly is one of the simple joys of my morning. While I drink my coffee, I turn on the local news to see what’s happening around town. It’s a small way to stay connected with the world and get caught up before I start my day.

    Animal Care: The Round of Chores

    One of the most important parts of my morning is taking care of my animals. I do a “round” of chores, checking on all of them and making sure everyone is fed, happy, and healthy.

    Of course, the goats and pigs are the loudest and most demanding. They know when I’m running late, even by just a few minutes. They start making noise as a reminder: “Hurry up! We’re hungry!” It’s almost like they have a built-in alarm clock, and it’s never a pleasant sound when they start making a fuss. But I love them — even the noisy ones. They’re part of my routine and part of what makes my mornings feel complete. I think if one of my family members took over this chore for me, I would still go out and see them, just to say good morning.

    Getting Ready for the Day: Preparation for Work

    Once the animals are taken care of and I’ve spent a few moments checking on my plants in the greenhouse, I get myself ready for the day. I take a shower, get dressed, and prepare for work. Being productive in the morning gives me a real sense of fulfillment, and I honestly feel like it sets the tone for not only a productive morning but a productive day overall.

    Why I Do It: The Importance of Morning Routine

    The reason I wake up so early, even though I do love my sleep, is simple: I know how much better I feel when I follow a routine. It’s not just about working out or getting through my chores. It’s about giving myself the time and space to focus on my well-being before the world pulls me in a thousand different directions. By the time I get home from work in the evening, I’m usually too tired to do much beyond watering my garden and checking on the animals again. But knowing that I’ve taken care of myself in the morning gives me the energy to tackle the rest of the day.

    Conclusion

    While this typically take up more than just the first hour of my day, this helps me achieve balance. It’s a mixture of physical activity, personal care, and looking after my animals and plants — all the things that set me up for a productive and fulfilling day. While it’s not always easy to get up early, I’ve learned that these moments of quiet, intention, and self-care are what make the rest of the day flow smoothly. By waking up early, I’m not just preparing for work; I’m preparing for a day that’s focused on wellness, productivity, and a sense of accomplishment.

  • How Technology Has Changed My Job as a Lab Assistant: The Pros, Cons, and Future of Automation in Healthcare

    How Technology Has Changed My Job as a Lab Assistant: The Pros, Cons, and Future of Automation in Healthcare

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    How has technology changed your job?
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    Over the past 15 years working in healthcare as a lab assistant, I have witnessed firsthand how technology has revolutionized the way we provide patient care. From drawing blood to processing various samples, much of the work that once relied heavily on manual labor and human precision has become automated. While this has undeniably reduced human error and increased efficiency, it has also raised questions about the future of hands-on roles in healthcare, like mine. As a lab assistant, I have seen how automation has transformed our practices—and the upcoming changes could be both exciting and somewhat concerning.

    The Shift from Manual to Automated Testing

    When I first started in this field, much of our work in the lab was done manually. For instance, testing samples for various conditions meant processing and vortexing blood samples and manually running the tests ourselves. We had to stay on top of every step, being careful not to make any mistakes, because even the smallest errors could lead to major consequences for patients.

    Today, machines have taken over much of that process. The whole blood sample is placed onto the equipment, which aliquots the necessary amount for analysis and performs the test internally.

    Automation has fully transformed waived testing as well, which is simpler and often conducted in a point-of-care environment (like mine). These machines independently handle the tests and generate results, eliminating the tedious task of manual data entry and minimizing the risk of human error.

    We rely so heavily on these machines that when one goes down, we are at a complete standstill. There isn’t anything for us to do except treat the symptoms for the patient or, in other circumstances, drive the patient samples to the nearest location that has the proper equipment that can test them for us.

    Will Machines Take Over Blood Draws?

    As healthcare continues to evolve—and quickly, I might add—one of the most talked-about possibilities on the horizon is the idea of automated blood draws. The thought of a machine taking my blood in a manner similar to how a blood pressure cuff inflates at my local Walmart terrifies me. There is no way I would stick my arm into that, knowing it would pierce my skin. While it sounds like science fiction, there has been serious talk about creating these ‘robots’ or automated systems for years that could change future blood draws with minimal human interaction.

    While the idea of an automatic blood drawer might seem appealing to some—especially in terms of speed and consistency—there are a few reasons why I believe this might not be the best approach, at least not for everyone.

    Why Automated Blood Draws Might Be a Bad Idea

    Personalization and Trust: As someone who performs blood draws regularly, I know how important it is to communicate with patients and make them feel comfortable. Some people have a fear of needles or have had bad experiences with previous draws. Human touch and reassurance can make a big difference in calming nerves. A machine, no matter how advanced, will not be able to provide the level of empathy and trust that a trained professional can offer.

    Complicated Cases: Not every patient’s veins are easy to access. Some patients have challenging veins, especially older adults, those with chronic illnesses, or people who are dehydrated. In these cases, the experience and skill of a human lab assistant make a huge difference.

    Error Handling: Even with the most advanced machines, errors can still occur. A machine might misinterpret data, or mechanical issues might arise during the blood draw. When this happens, humans are needed to step in and fix the problem. Can you imagine the machine malfunctioning while perforating the skin?

    Job Loss and Human Element: While automation has certainly made the process faster and more efficient, there’s also the concern of job displacement. If robots take over tasks that humans once performed, it could lead to job loss for many healthcare professionals, like lab assistants. The human element in healthcare is crucial. People value the care and attention they receive, and taking away that human interaction could make the process feel more mechanical and less compassionate.

    The Benefits of Technology in Healthcare

    Despite my reservations about automation in certain areas, I can’t ignore the benefits that technology has brought to healthcare. Reducing human error is critical in a field where patients’ lives are on the line. Automated machines and robotic surgeries have already helped save countless lives by ensuring that tests are done accurately, procedures are performed precisely, and patients receive timely treatments. The use of technology has made healthcare more efficient, accurate, and patient-centered.

    Conclusion

    In the last 15 years, the healthcare industry has undergone a transformation thanks to technology. Automation has reduced human error, making it safer for patients and more efficient for us as professionals. While I embrace these advancements and changes, I believe that some aspects, like blood draws, still require the human touch. The future of healthcare will likely continue to see a blend of both technology and human expertise, working together to provide the best possible care for patients.

    Ultimately, technology has undoubtedly improved patient care, and as we move forward, it will continue to play a pivotal role in reducing errors, enhancing accuracy, and increasing efficiency. However, I’m hopeful that we won’t lose sight of the irreplaceable value of human interaction in healthcare.

    What are your thoughts?

  • What I Wish I Could Do More of Every Day: My Homesteading Dream

    What I Wish I Could Do More of Every Day: My Homesteading Dream

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    What do you wish you could do more every day?
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    There are certain things that, if I had the luxury of time and financial freedom, I would do only that, every single day. These things fill me with joy and purpose, and they are what keeps me grounded. I’d spend more time on my farm, working with my animals, and nurturing the garden I’ve worked so hard to cultivate. For me, homesteading is about more than just growing food and raising animals—it’s a lifestyle. It’s about learning to be self-sufficient, acquiring new skills, and doing the things that bring me peace. If I could dedicate more of my day to this lifestyle, I would. But for now, I make the most of what I can.

    The Freedom to Spend More Time with My Animals and Garden

    If I didn’t have to go back to work each day, I would start each morning the way I wish I could—waking up early to watch the sunrise and NOT worrying about having to rush off to put on my scrubs. I’d spend that peaceful time drinking my coffee, enjoying the calm of the morning, and tending to the animals. They’re my friends, my companions, and each of them brings something special to my life. There’s nothing like the joy of feeding them, checking on them, and watching them grow and thrive.

    I’ve always loved animals, and having the time to really connect with them would make every day feel meaningful. But, unfortunately, the reality of having to go to work means that I often only have a short time in the evenings to spend with them before it’s time to get dinner ready and wind down for bed. If I could dedicate more time, I’d give each of my animals more attention, make their lives even better, and enjoy the simple pleasure of their company without the rush of time.

    Immersing Myself in the Garden and Learning New Skills

    Along with my animals, the garden is another aspect of homesteading that I would love to immerse myself in more. There’s something incredibly rewarding about planting seeds and watching them grow into food. I find peace in working the soil and caring for each plant, knowing that what I’m growing is not only nourishing my family but also strengthening my connection to the land. The more I garden, the more I realize there is always something new to learn—whether it’s experimenting with new planting methods, troubleshooting pest problems, or discovering ways to extend the growing season. 

    I’m constantly learning new skills, from preserving food, canning and even building projects like raised garden beds and chicken coops. Being self-sufficient is something I deeply value, and every time I learn a new skill, it feels like I’m becoming more in control of my life. It’s empowering to know that I can grow my own food, take care of my animals, and create what I need without relying on anyone else. Homesteading is a journey of continuous growth and learning, and I’m only just getting started.

    If I Never Had to Worry About Money…

    If I never had to worry about money, I’d be living my dream life right now. I’d wake up every day on the farm, tending to the land, spending hours with my animals, and enjoying the slow rhythm of life. I’d be free from the constraints of a traditional job, and every minute would be spent doing something I love. I wouldn’t have to rush through the day or feel like I’m constantly racing against the clock.

    In an ideal world, I’d have more time to build and create. I’d work on projects around the farm—expanding my garden, creating more sustainable systems, and maybe even starting a small homestead-based business. The possibilities are endless when you have the time to fully dedicate yourself to something you’re passionate about.

    This is My 401k

    One of the main reasons I started this blog and my YouTube channel was to share my journey, connect with like-minded people, and document the highs and lows of the homesteading life. It’s not just about the successes; it’s about the struggles, the lessons learned, and the growth that comes from trying something new. Whether I’m learning how to grow food sustainably, raising animals, or building something from scratch, there’s always something new to explore and discover.

    I created this space with the goal of inspiring others who are interested in homesteading or just want to understand more about the process. Let’s face it—there’s something uniquely fulfilling about having a community to share the experience with. I want to show the real side of homesteading, not just the perfect moments, because it’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it.

    Right now, I’m working on building something that I believe will help me achieve my dream—my blog and YouTube channel. These aren’t just hobbies for me; they’re an investment in my future. I see them as my retirement plan. Like contributing consistently to a traditional 401k, instead of money I’m putting my time, knowledge, and energy into content creation. Every blog post, every video, every subscriber and viewer brings me one step closer to making my dream of full-time homesteading a reality.

    While I still have a traditional job for now, this online platform is my long-term vision. One day, I’ll be able to look back and say that all of this work paid off—and I’ll be living my dream life far before retirement age. The seeds of growth are already taking root, and I’m excited about the future and what’s to come!

    The Dream Ahead

    For now, I’m grateful for every moment I get to spend on my farm, with my animals, and in my garden. I’m soaking up every bit of knowledge along the way and sharing it here with you. My blog and YouTube channel are the tools I’m using to build a life that allows me to do what I love, and I hope they’ll help me achieve my dream of living a more self-sufficient and fulfilling life, surrounded by the things I hold dear.

    One day, I’ll be able to spend every day exactly how I want—on the farm, with my animals, and in the garden. Until then, I’m working towards that goal, step by step.

  • Cooking From The Heart

    Cooking From The Heart

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    What’s your favorite thing to cook?
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    It’s hard to choose a favorite dish I like to cook. Preparing and serving my family meals is my love language and there’s just something truly special about cooking. Especially when it’s done with love. For me, creating wholesome meals isn’t just about satisfying hunger—it’s about nourishing the body and soul. Whether I’m putting together a vibrant salad, grilling up a perfectly seasoned steak, roasting potatoes, or baking fresh bread for the week’s sandwiches, I approach every dish with the same thought in mind: to pour love into my food. And when it’s served fresh from the oven or stovetop, I can’t help but feel the warmth of home in every bite.

    Cooking wholesome meals is a ritual for me, one that I cherish. It’s not just about the ingredients or the recipe—it’s about the intention behind the meal. There’s something magical about starting with simple, fresh ingredients and transforming them into something nourishing and comforting. The beauty of a colorful salad, the satisfying juiciness of a well-cooked steak, or the warm aroma of roasted potatoes—they’re all reminders of the power food has to bring people together and provide comfort.

    But for me, the magic doesn’t stop with the ingredients. It’s in the love and care I pour into each dish. I believe that when you cook with love, the food tastes better. There’s a personal touch that goes beyond flavor—it’s the energy you put into the meal. Whether I’m making something simple or elaborate, I know that the time and attention I give to each step makes the meal special.

    When I cook, I think about more than just filling stomachs. I want the food I make to nourish my kids’ bodies, yes, but I also want it to nourish their hearts and souls. There’s something deeply emotional about the act of sharing a meal together, especially one that has been made with care and love. I hope that when they sit down to a meal I’ve prepared, they not only feel satisfied but also feel the warmth of that love. Whether it’s a quick dinner after a busy day or a more elaborate weekend meal, I want my children to taste the care and attention in every bite, knowing that every meal is an expression of love.

    In a world that often feels fast-paced and disconnected, cooking meals from scratch is my way of staying connected—to my family, to tradition, and to the art of nurturing with food. It’s about taking time to make something wholesome, not just for nourishment but for connection. I hope my kids will remember the warmth of the meals I made for them and understand that it’s not just about feeding the body—it’s about feeding the spirit too.

    Perhaps I haven’t truly addressed the question, or maybe my answer just reflects my passion for cooking—whatever the dish may be. It could be said that the kitchen is my favorite room in the house. I find joy in infusing each meal with love, as there’s no better way to show I care than with a meal that’s made from the heart.

  • My Five Fun Things

    My Five Fun Things

    Daily writing prompt
    List five things you do for fun.
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    Life gets busy, especially when you work full-time, have children, and run a small farm. So it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. I try to set aside time for myself or incorporate things I enjoy into my day-to-day routine. I want to make sure I stay energized and take that time to unwind. Here are five things I like to do for fun.

    Dance Like No One’s Watching

    There is something magical about letting loose and moving to the beat of your favorite tune. Sometimes it’s a spontaneous dance party in the chicken coop, or maybe it’s a light flow yoga release session to wind down. Besides the physical benefits of dancing (physical exercise and energy release), I just truly enjoy it so much. It’s a form of art, self-expression, and generally just a good time.

    Paint My Heart Out

    When I get the chance and put a paintbrush in my hand, I feel like everything slows down. One brushstroke at a time, I am capable of bringing a new world to life—one meant only for me and that can be anything I desire. It’s so satisfying to mix the colors, play with textures, and truly let my mind wander. Painting is like a form of meditation for me; it clears my mind and allows my thoughts to drift to… who knows where? Who knew playing with paint could be so peaceful!

    Get Lost in Nature

    Nature has always had a way of grounding me, no matter how chaotic life gets. I love taking walks in the woods, hiking along the river, or simply sitting in my garden, listening to the bees. Breathing in the fresh air has such a calming effect, and it refreshes my mind and spirit. Nature never fails to remind me of life’s simple pleasures.

    Spoil My Animals Rotten

    I have always had a special place in my heart for furry, feathery companions. Taking care of my animals is such a rewarding part of my day, from feeding and grooming them to just sitting and bonding with them. I’m always amazed at their little personalities and funny quirks. They never fail to bring a smile to my face.

    Exploring

    Another thing I like to do for fun is surprise my family with vacations! I seek out new hiking trails or take them up in a helicopter for the first time. These trips are more than just sightseeing—they’re about the experiences and making memories together. Discovering new places, learning new things, and just enjoying each other’s company. (My teenagers do like each other, I swear.) Family trips always leave me feeling inspired and grateful.

    So there you have it! These five things bring me the most joy and allow me to recharge when life gets busy.

  • Baby Blanket: Small loss leads to a big lesson

    Baby Blanket: Small loss leads to a big lesson

    Daily writing prompt
    Describe an item you were incredibly attached to as a youth. What became of it?
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    During childhood, it’s common to develop a strong attachment to a beloved item, whether it be a toy, stuffed animal, or even a cherished blanket. Some might find comfort in simpler things, like their thumb, which is a bit harder to misplace. Typically, these attachments fade as we grow older, with those items often ending up stashed away in a closet or tucked inside a hope chest. They may be passed down to children or grandchildren, or perhaps, like me, you learned your first lesson in “stranger danger” and parted with those precious pieces of our youth.

    My Baby Blanket

    As a child, I had a favorite possession that I was deeply attached to—my baby blanket. It wasn’t just any blanket. It was a soft, white and yellow piece of comfort that accompanied me everywhere. The blanket had delicate ruffles along the edges, and I could have sworn it had little baby lambs or sheep scattered across it, gently reminding me of warmth and innocence. It was my constant companion through both the mundane and the exciting moments of childhood. 

    Even as I grew older, I insisted on bringing it with me wherever I went, despite my parents’ advice. “Don’t take it outside,” they would warn. “It might get ruined.” But, like many children, I didn’t always listen to my parents. I was determined to take my precious blanket with me, no matter the consequences.

    As I started exploring more, I made friends in the neighboring homes and you guessed it, baby blanket in tow. Nearby, a charming grove of trees beckoned to my friends and me, a place where our imaginations could run wild. We often darted through the dense thicket, pretending to construct forts or engaging in elaborate imaginary adventures. Yet, the reality was that I wasn’t permitted to explore this wooded haven freely. Although I found great joy in the shelter provided by the intertwining branches, this particular grove also served as a refuge for the local homeless community, who had made this serene spot their home. No one had ever bothered us before but understanding now, as an adult, my parents reasoning for trying to keep me away.

    little girls playing in the woods

    Lesson Learned The Hard Way

    On one unforgettable day, I found myself wrapped in my blanket, dashing around like a superhero alongside my best friend. We were in our favorite play spot, filled with laughter and mischief, when suddenly a man approached us, clearly displeased with our presence. As a young girl of no more than eight, I often overlooked many realities of the world, but that afternoon, an unsettling feeling began to creep in. The carefree joy we once felt evaporated, replaced by an alarming awareness that we were not welcome—this was his territory. In that moment, the fear I experienced was unlike anything I had faced before.


    In a flash, we took off, sprinting as fast as our little legs could manage, leaving my cherished blanket behind. The thought of going back to retrieve it filled me with dread; I couldn’t bear the uncertainty of what might happen next. Especially seeing as I would be returing alone. My friend had confided in me that she could never go back and there was no way I would confess to my parents that I had left it behind—that I had not only disobeyed them but that I had left something so meaningful to me behind in the chaos.

    After gathering my courage to revisit the trees, I stumbled upon my blanket mixed within the trash discarded by the current inhabitants. However, it was far from the cherished piece I remembered. The harsh elements had taken a serious toll, leaving the fabric tattered and unrecognizable. Once a comforting emblem of my childhood, it now lay in ruins. Unable to bring it back in such a state, I felt a mix of sadness and bittersweet realization wash over me. This moment served as an important lesson, as the blanket was frayed and no longer complete. I was very much whole and in one piece.

    sad little girl who last her blanket in the woods playing

    Reflection

    Reflecting on that moment, I now find it amusing that my biggest worry was my parents discovering I had left my beloved baby blanket behind, rather than focusing on my own safety. This illustrates just how naive I was at that age. The outcome of this ill-advised day turned out for the best and one that I’m grateful for. Although my blanket is no longer with me. I have the memories of my escapades, alongside the valuable lesson learned from its loss, and it will continue to stay with me.